Flower Basket

Send Flowers?????????????????

Me and this girl have been talkin for about 2months and we went out on 3dates. She has told me that she really does like me and wants to have a relationship with me. So on monday I am going out to California for 15days, so i wanted to send flowers to her house and a note saying "thinking of you". But the problem is that she hasnt told me where she lives, so if i send flowers to her house she might be like "wtf hes a weirdo". And she lives with her mother, brother, and sister and I dont know if she has told them about me because we are so early in our relationship. So should I send her to flowers while I am away for 15days??? BTW shes 24 yrs old so its not like shes a little girl or anything AND I can easily find out where she lives by putting her name in whitepages.com. And she hasnt told me her EXACT address yet because it just hasnt come up, she has told me the street that she lives on but not the house number or anything I REALLY want to send the flowers but i just wanted some opinions if it would seem creepy that i looked up her address to send her the flowers...

Public Comments

1. Sure go ahead. It will show the family and her that you're a nice guys. Nice guys send flowers. Call her too.
2. You're over thinking this to the max. If you really feel like she'd appreciate them, then send the flowers. But the fact that you're all sweaty over the issue indicates to me that you should just forget it - you'll be happier.
3. sure! i think that would be a lovely surprise! and it's not like she will think ur crazy cuz she told you what street she lived on! go buy those flowers!!!
4. I don't think you should send her flowers. At least I wouldn't but i think you could bring her back something. It might look weird. But other than that, if you feel like its a good idea, than go fo it. good luck buddy!
5. sure! do it
6. Is there a possibility you can send flowers to her work place? ok..firsly if you have time for another date..a coffee or something where you can pick her up that would be a great indication of where she lives. Then move up from there since she did say she wants to have a relationship with you. Don't look for her on the whitepages. She MAY get the idea you're stalking her or somethin'. But do the first thing and that is to pick her up...if all's well..send the flowers..sweetest thing!!! IF NOT....then i suggest you leave to Cali and call her from there.
7. Yes it would be a nice gesture. But don't do it the first day you are gone. Wait a few days then send them.
8. What Kryp said. I'm a 24 year old girl living with my mother and don't tell her about my dates or boyfriends. Though I would love to receive flowers like that, it would make the situation at home more awkward for me. At least if the guy brought me back something in person I could give him a kiss and hug right away. I don't know about your girl though. You should probably have that conversation now though, about whether her family know and whether she wants to tell them so you dont end up putting your foot in it. Good Luck with whatever you decide!
9. If she has a job maybe you can send it there but I don't think its a good idea to look up her address because if she wanted you to know exactly where she live then she would of let you pick her up or drop her off right in front of her house after the dates.If it was me, I'll think that you are a stalker.Or you can try asking her for the address in a smart way or just bring her back a gift from Cali.